What’s in an I Statement Anyway?

What’s in an I Statement Anyway?

Many people have heard about “I statements.” As someone said to me recently: “It’s counseling 101.” Yet, I do see many people struggle with expressing I statements, or even having a common understanding of what they are. So, let’s start with the basics: what do we...
If Community Is To Be, It’s Up To Us

If Community Is To Be, It’s Up To Us

During the first week in September, I was helping my daughter move from her home in Amsterdam to take up doing her PhD in Copenhagen. It was a happy, and very full, time. She’d been living in Amsterdam for 5 years, and I too have gotten attached to Amsterdam and its...
Let’s Dialogue Citizens!

Let’s Dialogue Citizens!

Traditionally, the July & August issues of this newsletter are my time to replenish – where content is slim & rest time large – to relax & reconnect with a larger meaning & purpose. As an experiment this year, I’m focusing on the...
What Is Human Nature & Why Does That Matter?

What Is Human Nature & Why Does That Matter?

A friend asked me recently if I’d heard of Rutger Bregman’s book Humankind: A Hopeful History. I hadn’t, but my curiosity was piqued! So, I dived into reviews and Goodreads and ordered it from the library (still waiting excitedly!). What I did surmise is Bregman makes...